To enjoy sex, it doesn't have to be a marathon event all the time. You can also enjoy a quickie and feel satisfied, at least for the specific moment. The secret to having a satisfying quickie is how intense it is for both partners.

Yes, it might be nice to have hours of sex after engaging in foreplay, but it doesn't have to be this way all the time. If you and your partner are in a hurry and want to get off, then there are things you should consider doing.

The success of a quickie will depend on how horny you are and how sensual you feel as well as the aggressive nature of the sex. You could rent a car and have a quickie in the backseat while parked in a private area away from crowds. You could also have quickie in your bathroom at home using sex toys and lubricants to cum quickly.

It would be ideal to start talking dirty to each other while on the phone or in person. It heightens the sense of urgency. Try different places rather than in the bed such as on the kitchen counter, dining table, washing machine, sofa or even on the floor. Try different sex positions such as doggy style, the butterfly, standing up, bending over, and reverse seating, X position or the lotus.

The primary difference between having a slower build up to sex and having a quickie is the length of the foreplay. Once you are thinking about a quickie, it means that you have little time, but you still have that horny desire. The bad news is that women prefer to have that stimulation before sex, but men don't mind participating in lengthy or brief sex. A man will have a quickie and still be able to have an orgasm, despite the lack of foreplay. For a woman, orgasms don't come as quickly and so when sex has to be done quickly, it might leave the woman in limbo while the man will usually cum in most cases. So what can partners do to make sure that both partners get what they want?

At times, female orgasms are a possibility when you are thinking of having sex quickly, but to mutually pleasure each other, there are things you need to do such as create anticipation with dirty talking, whether over the phone or in person. Dirty talking is like nectar to the anticipated encounter. For example, you would get a better reaction from each other by saying something like, "I want to have you so bad, I want to lick you all over, only you can suck me the way I want it. I cannot stop thinking about giving it you hard." In other words, you will know that your desire is mutual by what you say. It should turn you on. Most people are attracted to this in cases where they feel desired and their egos are boosted.

Keep the focus on mutual pleasure, no matter if you are pressed for time or not. Make it urgent such as calling up during a lunch hour and meeting in a private location, kissing and fondling as soon as you see each other. Make sure you go to the back of the vehicle so you are not suspect. If you are the female, go to the restroom before you arrive and take off your underwear and put it in your purse. Freshen up as best as you can so that when you arrive you don't have to waste time, but you are ready. Once you go on the back seat of the car together, don't let him know just yet that you do not have an underwear on, but start unbuckling his belt and undo his zipper while he kisses you and take out his obviously hard penis and sit on it. He will get that sudden shock and so will you, resulting in a hot and quick encounter for both of you. You don't have to use your lunch break to do this. You can do this after having dinner at a restaurant or when you are on vacation. Use your imagination. Having sex in the back seat of a car will definitely awaken those teenage past memories of frantically escaping the eyes of your parents and getting boned by one of your crushes. Bring back that teenage thrill.

If you choose to have sex in your car and you want to plan how to get away with it, put on a long dress and do not wear any underwear, if you want to get that adrenalin sex rush. Put the hem of your long dress between your front teeth while you are getting it on so it doesn't get in the way. It will be the gag you need not to groan and moan with pleasure. You can do the reverse too. Put the hem of your long dress in your lover's mouth so that he won't groan and moan too loud. He may see this as a turn on and give you the boning you were asking for, making you cum quicker than normal and as soon as you feel like you are about to get to that final orgasmic turn, take the dress out of his or your mouth and start moaning and calling out each other's name. Before you know it, you will both reach the heights of pleasure.

Sex Toys are another way to accomplish a quick orgasm Nothing beats having a sex toy to get that cum. Many women will not reach that orgasm with just penetrative sex. They might need that additional aide. However, you have to make the sex toys work to your satisfactory advantage. So, here is what you can do. Take your partner's penis in your hand, whether he has a hard on or not and place the head of it on your clit and apply a ribbed silicone vibrator on his penis. This will feel absolutely amazing for both of you. This will kick start the quickie, especially if one or both of you are struggling to get ready.

As a female, you might not have enough time to get wet and warm down below, but you can use a lubricant to get ready. And it doesn't matter, if you are going to have sex in your car, bed or shower. Make sure you have some lubricant on hand. Lubricants will afford you to have good, satisfying, exciting and quick sex. So many women enjoy having spontaneous sex at times. However, without that foreplay buildup, many of these women would prefer using a water-based lubricant to prepare their vagina. As for condoms, make sure you have those with you because you don't want that cum to leak out of your vagina and cause a mess, especially if you have to go back to work. Use the Pleasure Dome condoms because they are more comfortable and provide added sensation.

Make some acrobatic moves so you can put some excitement into this sexual encounter. If you do something differently, you will get more out of it. Lean backwards, for example, further than usual, activating your core and feeling that burn in your abdomen. Why? Well, it tightens the pelvic area, creating added sensation in your genital area. Moreover, it will take the boredom out of sex and surprise your partner that you thought about giving him more than he bargained for. When you place your body in a variety of positions, it tends to tense up the muscles, activate the nerves and give you a different feeling of pleasure. If you have always lain on your back and have your partner penetrate you by lying on top of you, change that position. Instead, you could crouch on your hands and knees and have him penetrate you from behind. Take additional action for a climax by possibly clenching your butt and your thighs after penetration. That's the 'kegel' action that has worked for many women, giving both of you the pleasure you need to 'cum.'

Turning on music is definitely a 'mood changer.' However, choose romantic songs that you like or you have had playing in the past while making love. In addition, play music loudly to drown out any of the sounds that might make during your quickie. Yes, music can shift your mindset and get you in the mood for sex. It can boost your confidence and allow you to relax. Mimic the words of the song that you have playing. And so, make sure the words depict what you want to do with each other. One American artist that sings those kinds of songs is R. Kelly. If you don't like his song, choose an artist that is similar to him. Music cultivates emotions and changes the tempo.

Of course, many people might not be aware that making sounds during sex can help you to reach that climax. You can shout as loud as you want (with loud music playing, of course). You can scream with pleasure or grunt deeply. You can call each other's names such as 'you fucking beast; or 'you sexy bitch.' These are some of the things that can turn you on. In fact, it is an erotic way to vocalize your feelings and the sensation you are experiencing. Never have sex and be silent. Let your partner know that you are enjoying it. Be an animal. Make animalistic sounds. Be expressive without being embarrassed. Never feel as if you are vulnerable. It is just an expression of your emotions and all you are doing is just coaxing your orgasm. It is a great turn on for both of you. Now, let us discuss some of the sexual positions that will give you a quicker orgasm.

Doggy Style is one of the sex positions that you could try to bring out your carnal nature and bring that orgasm on. Assuming this position, you will benefit from the thrusting coming from behind. You will get a deeper penetration and the high possibility of 'cumming' with your partner at the same time.

The standing up position is something that you may not be doing all the time and so why not try it for your quickies. It is easy and you may not be close to a bed and have no other option. You can stand up facing your partner or do it from behind. Either way, it will stimulate the clit and give your partner a deep penetration. Use a chair or other props so it is not clumsy.

The Lotus sex position is great for quickies because it will allow you and your partner to be wrapped up and intertwined with each other. This will allow for more stimulation for both of you during a quickie. Your partner will have easier access to the clitoris, neck, nipples and other areas. In addition, you will be face to face, therefore, boosting the sexual arousal with more kissing and touching.

The Butterfly sex position allows you to stand close to the edge of a bed, holding up your pelvis so that your partner can thrust deep inside you. It is better than lying on a bed with each other. You will get to put your foot up on the bed or chair, giving your partner a deeper angle to penetrate and reach closer to the clit for added stimulation for a 'faster cum.'

There are other sex positions you can try to enhance your sensual pleasure with each other. You could also try quick masturbating to prepare for the ultimate orgasm. You could also try out one of your sexual fantasy moves such as handcuffing your partner and having the quickie while watching her squirm with pleasure. Discover the different sexual positions and preparation tactics to use if you wanted to have a satisfying quickie with your partner any day of the week.

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