Discover the real meaning of heteroflexible and what other people think about it, especially both genders; male and female. Get a peek into the truth. Now, let's begin with explaining it in its simplest and easiest form. What exactly does this mean in a sexual setting? Is there a difference between being flexible and being straight?

In the gay community, no one is judged and so you can be who you are. If you want to experiment to see whether you are bisexual or just want to dip into the bisexual space and come back as often as you want to, no one faults you for that. We all have choices. Most people view heteroflexibility as someone just being curious about 'being gay' and yet might have a 'straight' relationship that might be 'normal.'

Many of these people satisfy their curiosity on the 'down low,' so no one will know, but others don't care and will do this openly. In many cases, this is done by college aged male and female who want to explore their options. This phenomenon allows the younger adults to safely explore the same-sex relationships without making any commitments. It's kind of seeing if you like it first and then making a decision after or just doing it for the fun of it because you are in college and have no commitments. In layman terms, heteroflexibility is a variation of the bisexual choice.

While you shouldn't have to put a label on your sexual orientation, many people do it, just to differentiate from one group to the next. In terms of being heteroflexible, it sets you apart because you are a full blown heterosexual, but you often dabble into bisexual activities. That is just it - plain and simple. You have no plans on being part of the gay community per se, but you don't mind going from straight to bisexual and back when you want to. This doesn't mean that you will or won't hang out with the gay crowd. But, you make this choice so that you can be more flexible. Why do you have to put a label on it? Well, that is how others in the gay community will know how to approach you. It is not that they won't welcome you in the fold, if you want to, but you might not be totally 'one of them.'

Sometimes, people use this label as a joke or as a bi-curious term for men and women. However, other people use it because they are unable to find another obvious label for their sexual orientation. But heteroflexibility is real, even though it is difficult to characterize and assess in comparison to heterosexual or homosexual orientation. It is still to be characterized as a form of sexual orientation because in most cases, it is a relationship with the opposite sex. Moreover, this kind of attraction can result in some form of sexual act most times than not.

In many cases, the result does not have to be the actual sex act, but lots of petting, fondling and kissing with the opposite sex. There is a potential for more physical action with indulging in foreplay.

Bisexuality could be an attraction to either a man or a woman. It is an attraction that you might have with one gender or the other, which is similar to heteroflexibility. However, in most cases, you are attracted to someone of the opposite sex. It really sounds much like bisexuality, but it is actually not, if that makes sense, but it is closely similar. The word 'heteroflexible' is used by people who are not as comfortable using the label pansexual or bisexualto describe themselves. Why thought? It might be the fact that the label appears too much like a political statement, commitment or an obligation.

If you say you fall in this category, then it allows you a safe exploration to have a same sex attraction, getting you to that place of comfort with your own sexuality. There is nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about. If you have a perplexing sensibility or unavoidable curiosity to do something different, even if you are a heterosexual, nothing is wrong with it.

Now, let us look at the difference between being bisexual and heterosexual Bisexuals can be attracted to either male or female. When you are a heterooflexible individual, it means that you may feel an urge to have sex with someone of the same sex, but only on an occasional basis. So, you might be mainly heterosexual and display preference or propensity for people of the opposite sex. In some cases, you may have an attraction, but you might not carry out the feelings with action. And if you do act upon it, you might just make out with the person and not have sex.

So, in other words, this is a variation of bisexuality. The thought of having some kind of relationship with a woman if you are a woman might feel weird or scary because it is not a known occurrence. While you might have a crush on a woman or fantasize about being with one, but you may not want to put your thoughts into action and if you do, you may not go all the way, but just fondle or kiss. And you may end up losing interest and having sex with a man after your curiosity has been met. However, in the future, you may revisit the idea of being with a woman and going all the way, but only for a few times, again to see what bisexuality is all about. It all boils down to what you consider yourself to be. You should be your authentic self and come to terms with who you are and what you want. It is possible that your nature allows you to identify with the bisexual existent and you could be on a path of self exploration and not know yet which group you identify with.

Our own sexuality might appear to be closely intertwined with our very existence. And that is why many of us have labels to make us feel closer to a specific group of people. This is how we get to define who we are and accept ourselves for being one or the other. However, in some cases, people who are confused or do not want to be labeled for one reason or the other are often left in limbo for a long time. These people tend to fit in more than one groups until they 'find themselves.'

There is always going to be a debate as it relates to being 'heteroflexibile.'Many people love to describe themselves this way because they want to remain flexible and uncommitted, but this might offend those in the bisexual community since the lifestyle is more serious for them and they might think you are playing a game or something. But, it is everybody's right to say and do what they want. Nothing is cut in stone and no one group can determine what you should or shouldn't do. So, the debate is going to continue since there is no definitive consensus as to what label one should be ascribed to - who does not fit in one group or the other.

There are some people who are in the phase of experimenting with their sexuality and might feel more comfortable with one group over the other or might be switching from one group to the next to find their comfort zone. Nothing is wrong with this. If you want to explore where you fit in the bisexual, pansexual, gay or transgender spectrum, you have to first become heteroflexible because you are in an indeterminate state, trying to search to find out about your own sexuality. That is quite normal and within the scope of experimenting. If you are attracted to a man and a woman at the same time, you are defined as bisexual.

If you are in a heterosexual relationship, but you have an inclining or curiosity to be with the opposite sex, but want to still maintain your heterosexual status, you are in between decisions and still flexible to do one or the other or both at the same time. You could be doing this to see if it works out with the same sex trial and if it does, you may make the transition to be with the same sex. However, until then, you are considered to be heteroflexible. It could be that you are not happy in your heterosexual relationship and have always been curious about being with a woman.

It could be that you are tired of being with a man because of his insensitivity and you feel like a woman would understand you more and be more sensitive towards your feeling. Whatever the reason for your curiosity of your 'dipping in the bisexual pond,' you are not alone. There are many people like you around. Your feelings are not to be ridiculed because they are human and normal. Sometimes, we tend to remain in relationships where we cannot be our authentic self and possible are not happy. In this case, you might feel the same way and want to make a change, but not sure that you are brave enough to make that move. So, you experiment a little to learn how you feel about it. You must remember, though, that you don't want to lead the other person on. This means that the person of the same sex that might be a bisexual will not be sure of what you want. They might think you are seeking a relationship and if you are only experimenting, this leaves nothing to be desired because you are giving a false positive reaction, which is unpredictable. This is not fair to the next person. So, you might have to do some explaining. But, before you kiss and tell, make sure you understand and have come to terms with what you are going to do.

There is a phobia that is attached to the gay world itself. When you are labeled or choose to label yourself as one group or the other, you will make it seem as if you are setting yourself apart, which most people might think is not cool. If you feel that you have to be set apart from a certain group, you are then reinforcing that being a bisexual/u> is not the best decision for you. This means that you are a part of the societal phobia. This will be egregious to the bisexual community. You may be attaching shame to the label of bisexuality and this is not something that bisexuals would like. So be very careful how you trod this fine line. While you can freely express yourself as whatever you want, be sure that you don't dehumanize anyone.