Most women hate their monthly periods because of all the mess that it might cause and
more importantly because it might interfere with their sex lives. However, there are
ways to get around this and still have mess-free period sex. You could go simple by
using makeup sponges, soft tampons, dark colored towels, Soft cup or Ziggy
cup.
You could also try to do it in the shower to avoid the mess so
that it can be easily washed off down the drain. You could also try a variety of
positions such as anal insertion, wall sex or get on the floor so you don't have to mess
up the sheets. Many people have taken these unique approaches before and you can too!
Did you know that having orgasms can help menstrual cramps? But, if you are too
embarrassed to have sex while you are seeing your period, then you will have to endure
those menstrual cramps until your period ends. Why would you want to have sex while on
your periods, you might be asking?
Well, what if you were on a vacation and then
you notice that you are in the 'red zone' upon arrival, then what do you do? Do you
spend each day of your vacation wishing and hoping that it would go away? That's not
going to help. You have to take matters into hand and find ways to get around it while
allowing nature to continue taking its course.
You spent so much money on your Fiji vacation, only to find out on the first day that you have to deal with menstruation. Then what? If you don't try some drastic measures, then you will end up going home without enjoying your vacation to its maximum capacity. Having sex is supposed to be on your vacation agenda. The same is true, even if you are not on vacation. If you feel horny while at home and you are on your periods, do you stay horny or do you find ways to make it work for you and your partner?
There are some people that might think it is disgusting to have sex while entering that
menstrual cycle. Sex itself can be messy with 'cum,' but when you are menstruating, it
can be even messier.
Shame is the stigma that is attached to period sex.
Many women would never think about doing that, but menstruation is a normal occurrence
and there should be no shame in having sex while menstruating. You just need to take
adequate precautions so you don't make a mess.
If you know exactly when your period is going to appear, you could take a birth control pill one or two days before it arrives and it will usually not come. However, if you don't want to do this, then you have to stick to having sex while you are experiencing menstruation. You should have the mindset that menstruation is just a natural process of seeing blood flowing from your vagina because it is a way for your reproductive system to remain healthy. When you both understand this fact, then it will be easier to have sex and not think anything of what is going on inside the uterus. You don't need to be with a partner who is ignorant and immature so as not to accept the natural process of menstruation and get with the program.
If you are OK with this, then you should first consider using items or ways to avoid the mess during sex. Makeup sponges can do the trick, if you know how to properly use it. In fact, many porn stars use this method so as to continue working while on their periods. However, it is not just any makeup sponges, but the ones that look like wedges. These wedges are helpful during penetrative and oral sex. Insert one or two of the makeup wedges far up into the vagina so it can absorb all fluids. Make sure it reaches the cervix. This will last for a few hours. Your partner won't even feel the wedges upon penetration. After you are done with your love making, then it is time to fish out the makeup wedges. Do so as soon as possible. If you had hardcore sex, then it might take a few minutes of your time to hook a finger into the vagina, feel for the wedges and pull it out. If you used an oversized wedge, it will be easily extracted. The smaller ones are the most challenging to pull out.
The man can use condoms so as not to create a mess on his penis, but the woman has to use a thick towel or dark cloth to prevent her mess. Condoms will help to make both partners feel confident and comfortable having period sex and enjoying it. It provides a safety net.
Because there are not strings on the cosmetic wedges, it is hard to fish out after sexual intercourse. And that is why you could try a tampon, which would be easy to fish out because it comes with a string. Soft tampons are great to insert when you are on your periods. You would these instead of the cotton tampons. The soft tampons are made with more elasticity and cotton does not have that. Moreover, it has better ergonomics and so it will fit well and they do not get in the way at all when you are having sexual intercourse. Soft tampons are great to insert when you are on your periods. You would these instead of the cotton tampons. The soft tampons are made with more elasticity and cotton does not have that. Moreover, it has better ergonomics and so it will fit well and they do not get in the way at all when you are having sexual intercourse. As long as either the wedges or the tampon are not overly saturated with the blood from your menses, then you are good to go. Be patient in getting out the wedges of tampon after sex. It might take you some time, especially, if you were having deep penetrative love making.
If you are prudish about chemicals, you may need to think about using a "Softcup." Makeup sponges have a chemical factor and so, the "Softcup" is a great alternative. This product is usually available at the CVS or Walgreen pharmacies, although, it is not always in stock. You can search online to find the website where it can be purchased. However, instead of the Softcup, you could just use the OG makeup sponges. We hear that they are the best. If you are going to have more than a round of sex, though, you may have to replace the OG makeup sponges so you don't' have an overflow of blood.
You are going to have your periods for a long time and so it is good to know what to do during acts of passion and the urge to have sex. Yes, your menstrual cycle will definitely affect your sex life. Birth control is another idea. Instead of taking your birth control pills for 21 days, you would take it for 7 extra days to eliminate your menstruation, at least for that month or whenever you want to. This is the guaranteed way to have a mess-free sexual encounter. However, you shouldn't do this on an ongoing basis; only for special occasions.
Believe it or not, sex is the best remedy for menstrual pain, whether you are having intercourse with someone or with yourself. When you make love with someone and reach an orgasm, dopamine and oxytocin are immediately released into your body, relieving your body of cramps, pains and aches. It is then the ideal remedy for your menstrual cramps. In addition, having an orgasm during period sex will help to eliminate more of the uterine lining; therefore, shortening the length of time you have your periods. When you have sex on your periods, why wouldn't you want to shorten the time? And what better way to do so than to have mess-free period sex! Don't pass up the chance! Who wants to wait for days to enjoy a sexual encounter anyway?
You could also have sex in the shower to make things not as messy. Keep the water running while in the shower so that everything is washed down the drain. The shower is also a place where you can expect to be able to wash off after sex. You don't have to worry or squeamish about having messy towels and all of that. It is like the shower was made just for mess-free period sex. It can be a magical experience for both of you.
The sexual positions that you assume are also important for you to be a better experience. If you know how to beat gravity, then you are good to go. However, the position has to be upward, different from the flow of your menstrual period. Whether you like to be on top or not, the ideal way to minimize the blood flow is to remain in a position that puts you on your back. Spooning also will work, if you are tired of the missionary (on the back) style. Doggy style is another good option because it keeps the body off the bed. It also allows your partner to be in control, slowly thrusting the hips and slowly penetrating your vagina.
Maybe, you need to pretend for a moment that your partner is a superhero and that he is strong enough to hold you against the wall. This is a super hot way to have sex and the added bonus is that you won't make a mess with your periods because you are no longer lying on a bed. Just be sure that you don't disturb your roommates, if you share accommodations, but maybe, they won't be bothered by your amazing sex life. If so, they may leave and give you privacy.
Use a darker colored towel that you would place underneath you while having sex. Be sure not to put on white sheets, but change it to a darker set of sheets, if you are in your own home. Most hotels have white sheet sets on the bed and so a darker colored towel would be ideal to save the white sheets from being messed up. You wouldn't want the maid to come the next morning and have to put on gloves to deal with your mess now, would you? This could be embarrassing. So, once you are done with the towel, throw it in some garbage can that is outside of the room. One suggestion is the "Liberator Throe." It is a product recommended for absorbing any kind of body fluid.
Why not try anal sex? That means, your partner would not insert his penis into your vagina, but your butt instead. He wouldn't have to contend too much with your periods, but you might still have to use the makeup sponge so that your partner doesn't have to deal with any leakage or bleeding. If you are not accustomed to anal sex, may be this is the perfect opportunity to try. If you are uncomfortable with anal sex at first, try experimenting with a vibrator or other sex toy.
You could try the Ziggy Cup, which is similar to the Soft Cup, but the Ziggy Cup lays down flat when you install it into the vagina. You can wear this cup for twelve hours before it starts to leak. This time is longer than what you would experience with the tampon.
There is no reason you should change your sex life to suit your monthly menstrual period. The period sex can be as normal as you want it to be without all the mess. We hope that you take advantage of some of the tips and recommendations above. We also hoped you learned the things that will allow you to experience good sex during your monthly period without the obvious mess. It can be done. Other women are doing it.
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